These children are often engaging, adventurous, strong-willed, and opinionated—traits that can serve them well. At home, however, they may test boundaries, resist rules, and respond with strong emotions, sometimes blaming others. Parents often feel overwhelmed or like they’re “walking on eggshells.”
When parenting a Challenger, consistency, emotional regulation, avoiding arguments, separating behavior from the child’s identity, and offering choices can help. Your child may not always fit this type, but starting with resources for Challengers may be useful.
