Why Kids Lie (And What to Do About It) Dr. Janet Patton
Worried about your child's fibs? Lying is actually a normal part of growing up. Whether testing boundaries, avoiding trouble, or even trying to spare feelings, kids lie for many reasons. The key is to respond in ways that encourage honesty while building trust.
Things to Think About:
Match your response to the type of lie – ignore attention-seeking fibs, but address serious deception
Give second chances for truth-telling: "I'm going to ask again, and it's okay if the answer isn't what I want to hear"
Keep consequences short and relevant rather than harsh punishments
Never label your child a "liar" – focus on the behavior, not their character
Key Takeaway: Your response to lying shapes your child's future honesty. By staying calm, understanding the "why" behind the lie, and creating safe spaces for truth-telling, you help your child develop into someone who values honesty while maintaining their self-esteem.
Why Kids Lie (And What to Do About It) Dr. Janet Patton
Worried about your child's fibs? Lying is actually a normal part of growing up. Whether testing boundaries, avoiding trouble, or even trying to spare feelings, kids lie for many reasons. The key is to respond in ways that encourage honesty while building trust.
Things to Think About:
Match your response to the type of lie – ignore attention-seeking fibs, but address serious deception
Give second chances for truth-telling: "I'm going to ask again, and it's okay if the answer isn't what I want to hear"
Keep consequences short and relevant rather than harsh punishments
Never label your child a "liar" – focus on the behavior, not their character
Key Takeaway: Your response to lying shapes your child's future honesty. By staying calm, understanding the "why" behind the lie, and creating safe spaces for truth-telling, you help your child develop into someone who values honesty while maintaining their self-esteem.
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