Before the Storm: Simple Ways to Prevent A Meltdown
Stop Meltdowns Before They Happen
Alisha Williamson, Ed.S.
Living with a challenging child sometimes feels like navigating a minefield. Good news, parents—you don't have to walk on eggshells forever!
Things to Think About:
- Know their triggers: Notice patterns around time of day, hunger levels, or specific activities that often lead to explosions
- Master transitions: Give clear warnings ("10 minutes until we leave"), repeat countdown reminders, or use visual timers they can see
- Set clear expectations: Before challenging situations, explain exactly what behavior you expect and what rewards/consequences will follow
- Choose your moments: Sometimes the best strategy is rescheduling when everyone is tired or hungry
Key Takeaways: Your Challenger's brain is wired differently when it comes to transitions and boundaries. With prep and consistency, you're not just avoiding meltdowns; you're teaching them valuable self-regulation skills they'll use for life.
Stop Meltdowns Before They Happen
Alisha Williamson, Ed.S.
Living with a challenging child sometimes feels like navigating a minefield. Good news, parents—you don't have to walk on eggshells forever!
Things to Think About:
- Know their triggers: Notice patterns around time of day, hunger levels, or specific activities that often lead to explosions
- Master transitions: Give clear warnings ("10 minutes until we leave"), repeat countdown reminders, or use visual timers they can see
- Set clear expectations: Before challenging situations, explain exactly what behavior you expect and what rewards/consequences will follow
- Choose your moments: Sometimes the best strategy is rescheduling when everyone is tired or hungry
Key Takeaways: Your Challenger's brain is wired differently when it comes to transitions and boundaries. With prep and consistency, you're not just avoiding meltdowns; you're teaching them valuable self-regulation skills they'll use for life.