Before the Storm: Simple Ways to Prevent A Meltdown

Stop Meltdowns Before They Happen
Alisha Williamson, Ed.S.


Living with a challenging child sometimes feels like navigating a minefield. Good news, parents—you don't have to walk on eggshells forever!


Things to Think About: 

  • Know their triggers: Notice patterns around time of day, hunger levels, or specific activities that often lead to explosions
  • Master transitions: Give clear warnings ("10 minutes until we leave"), repeat countdown reminders, or use visual timers they can see
  • Set clear expectations: Before challenging situations, explain exactly what behavior you expect and what rewards/consequences will follow
  • Choose your moments: Sometimes the best strategy is rescheduling when everyone is tired or hungry


Key Takeaways: Your Challenger's brain is wired differently when it comes to transitions and boundaries. With prep and consistency, you're not just avoiding meltdowns; you're teaching them valuable self-regulation skills they'll use for life.

Stop Meltdowns Before They Happen
Alisha Williamson, Ed.S.


Living with a challenging child sometimes feels like navigating a minefield. Good news, parents—you don't have to walk on eggshells forever!


Things to Think About: 

  • Know their triggers: Notice patterns around time of day, hunger levels, or specific activities that often lead to explosions
  • Master transitions: Give clear warnings ("10 minutes until we leave"), repeat countdown reminders, or use visual timers they can see
  • Set clear expectations: Before challenging situations, explain exactly what behavior you expect and what rewards/consequences will follow
  • Choose your moments: Sometimes the best strategy is rescheduling when everyone is tired or hungry


Key Takeaways: Your Challenger's brain is wired differently when it comes to transitions and boundaries. With prep and consistency, you're not just avoiding meltdowns; you're teaching them valuable self-regulation skills they'll use for life.

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