How to Handle When Your Child Says "No!" Dr. Janet Patton
We've all been there—asking our child to do something simple only to hear a firm "NO" in response. Don't worry, this is very typical and there are some simple ways to handle these moments. When your child refuses to cooperate, they're just learning to express independence. This is actually a healthy part of growing up, even if it drives us crazy sometimes.
Things to Think About:
Validate their feelings: "I see you don't want to put on shoes right now"
Offer simple choices: "Do you want to brush your teeth before or after pajamas?"
Redirect gently: "After we clean up, we can read your favorite book"
Notice and celebrate when they do cooperate
Key Takeaway:When children feel heard and have some control, they're much more likely to cooperate. Small adjustments can transform those challenging moments into opportunities for connection. If you find this is happening a bit too often, you might want to check out the Challenger Library for more helpful hints.
How to Handle When Your Child Says "No!" Dr. Janet Patton
We've all been there—asking our child to do something simple only to hear a firm "NO" in response. Don't worry, this is very typical and there are some simple ways to handle these moments. When your child refuses to cooperate, they're just learning to express independence. This is actually a healthy part of growing up, even if it drives us crazy sometimes.
Things to Think About:
Validate their feelings: "I see you don't want to put on shoes right now"
Offer simple choices: "Do you want to brush your teeth before or after pajamas?"
Redirect gently: "After we clean up, we can read your favorite book"
Notice and celebrate when they do cooperate
Key Takeaway:When children feel heard and have some control, they're much more likely to cooperate. Small adjustments can transform those challenging moments into opportunities for connection. If you find this is happening a bit too often, you might want to check out the Challenger Library for more helpful hints.
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